Originally posted by Herman
You're right that a zygote starts out as a female before the Y chromosome is added, but to call another gender a disease? That's beyond going too
far. It's in a completely different ballpark.
LOL…I did not say men WERE a disease, I said “Species that do not have disease do not have males. Males exist for the purpose of mixing dna.”
And yes I realize saying only disease was shorthand but it was late and I was making a quick comment. The fact is early forms of life did NOT have
males, they evolved later as a survival mechanism in hostile environments.
Originally posted by Herman
Personally, I don't think dating purely for sex is worth it. That's way too much work for something that I really don't consider to be THAT
amazing, at least not on the level that some do. I guess, even though a year ago I never thought I'd say it, nothing beats a really deep, emotional
connection with another person. And having sex with the person you share that connection with? Pretty awesome.
Well that sounds like the ops point, getting the real deal is often too much hassle. A year ago I could not imagine thinking it was too much hassle,
but lately I have been thinking the same thing. And for me it is easier, I date guys and many of them are much much easier than women, in fact it can
require a minimal amount of effort but even that seems like too much for something that may not be all that good anyway.
Originally posted by Herman
What can I say? Although everythingyoudespise did hit on something when he said it's kind of like a competition. It seems like the times when I was
almost wishing for it to just be over (don't get me wrong...still pretty good.) were the times that she thought it was the most amazing thing in the
world.
Now from my experience really great sex is always a two way street. The best sex involves great chemistry and that takes all the thinking and
competition out of it. I have never seen it as a competition. But that just may be my perception, I have had people tell me “that was great” when
I really didn’t think so, but I just assumed they hadn’t had any for a while or they have no clue what good is.
